Main idea
Connecting is a permission request. Your dapp asks the wallet for access to accounts, then your UI reacts to the result.
Do not treat connection as a one-time button click. Show state, handle errors, and let Wagmi manage wallet connectors.
What safe means
A safe connect flow does not spam wallet popups. It tells the user what is happening and waits while the wallet is open.
MetaMask and other injected wallets can change accounts after connection. Do not hard-code an address or assume an old accounts array is still correct.